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As you know
from working in the educational field, students can act out at
different times for different reasons. Although upbringing,
nutrition, and other lifestyle situations all have an effect on
behavior, a child’s personality style can be key in influencing
the way he or she approaches the world, interacts with others,
and responds to situations in the classroom.
Lets use the
example of “tattling.” What one child deems worthy of
reporting, others won’t even notice or care about. Four common
motivations for tattling are:
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Someone broke the rules
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To report (or warn of impending) harm; emotional or physical
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To cause a commotion or “stir the pot”
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To avoid looking stupid or silly
Can you
guess which color style would tattle for what reason? If you
can’t tell right away, it will be easy by the end of this
article. Although a child’s personality is as unique as their
fingerprint, certain traits emerge that allow us to identify
patterns of behavior. True Colors helps identify personality
types by grouping common attributes into four colors. Knowing
the particular style of your students can provide clues when
trouble may be heading your way.
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ORANGE
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Active, adventurous,
hands-on and eager, Oranges are spontaneous performers
who flourish in an atmosphere of variety and
stimulation. They learn best when they can immediately
recognize the practical applications to “real” life.
Behavior problems begin to arise when:
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They are made to
wait, too much routine
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There is no
outlet for competitive spirit, adventure
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They are bored
or lack fun, freedom, or challenge
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The classroom
structure is too rigid, excessive paperwork
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They receive
criticism that limits risk-taking
Clues that Orange is heading for trouble
may include:
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Excessive
fidgeting, pesters others
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Aggressive
behavior, shouts, verbal attacks
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Defies
authority, intentionally breaks rules
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Nervousness,
restlessness, trapped by structure
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Disruptive,
excessive attention-getting misbehavior
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BLUE
STUDENTS |
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Compassionate,
creative, affectionate, relationship-oriented
individuals, Blues need to express their emotions, feel
special, included, connected and a sense of harmony in
their environment and with others.
Behavior problems begin to arise when:
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They feel
unfairly hurt by teacher or classmates
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They are left
out of activities or feel abandoned
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The class
environment is too noisy or competitive
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There is not
enough group interaction, discussion or connection
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They detect
indifference, feel insignificant or lack validation
and acknowledgement
Clues that a Blue is heading for trouble
may include:
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Excessive
fantasizing, daydreaming, spacing out
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Tardiness
because of friends
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Crying,
emotional upset, moodiness, depression
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Over dependence
on teachers or others
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Tries to act
like nothing is wrong, lies to save face
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GOLD
STUDENTS |
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Prepare, reliable,
conscientious, role model students, Golds thrive on
consistency, organization and structure. They like to
know what to expect and what is expected of them.
Behavior problems begin to arise when:
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There is lack of
structure, disorganization, not starting on time
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They are not
provided with enough detail, concreteness, or time
to prepare
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There is limited
reinforcement or reward for success
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Others are off
task or irresponsible
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There is
inconsistency or injustice
Clues that Gold is heading for trouble
may include:
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Anxiety and
worry
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Critical,
authoritarian tone of voice, complaining and use of
guilt to manipulate
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Malicious
judgment of self and others, excessive control
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Tense body
posture and movements
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Tired, illness,
headaches, self-pity, whining
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GREEN
STUDENTS |
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Curious,
independent, analytical and ingenious, Greens are
problem-solvers intrigued with the how and why. They
crave facts, information and competence.
Behavior problems begin to arise when:
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They think
others see them as incompetent
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They don’t have
time to think or prepare
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There is lack of
privacy or autonomy
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They are forced
to participate or perform when they fear failure
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They believe the
teacher or lesson is illogical
Clues that Green is heading for trouble
may include:
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Anxiousness,
forgetfulness, difficulty communicating thoughts
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Overactive
imagination, withdrawal
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Criticism of
others through snobbish acts, superior demeanor or
derogatory remarks
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Arguing, back
talk, non-conformance, defiance of authority
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Avoidance of
feared object or situation
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Have you
already guessed what motivates which style to tattle? The
answers are:
1- Gold, 2- Blue, 3-Orange, 4- Green. Although many
factors play a role in a child’s behavior, understanding the
motivations of different personalities may give staff the
opportunity to better meet the needs of students before problems
begin.
Mary Miscisin is the author of
SHOWING OUR TRUE
COLORS - A Fun, Easy Guide for Understanding
and Appreciating Yourself and Others.
(c)
2005 Mary Miscisin, All Rights Reserved
www.PositivelyMary.com
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